The Reaping….what do you sow?

You will recieve a return wherever you intentionally invest your energy. Stop gossiping about folk then getting mad when they gossip about you - that's your harvest. Stop scheming against others and being surprised when things always seem to turn against you - that's your harvest. Stop lying all the time while having the nerve … Continue reading The Reaping….what do you sow?

We care…for a moment.

Your highs and lows are just that - yours. People will celebrate with you, for a moment. People will mourn with you, for a second. But, quickly, they'll move on....and they'll hope you do too...(or atleast shut up talking about it). Don't take it personal. Such is life. Most of us don't have the bandwidth … Continue reading We care…for a moment.

I Didn’t Survive #RKelly, but I survived so many like him….

I applaud John Legend for his willingness to speak out. I hope more men follow his lead. It angers me to hear how many men (and older women) around #rkelly had opportunities to (at minimum) report him to authorities and/or get these girls away, warn these parents, etc....and they didn't. A little of my story … Continue reading I Didn’t Survive #RKelly, but I survived so many like him….

Rant: Misery loves company, but I ain’t the one. #TristaDaniell

If you get into it with people EVERYWHERE YOU GO.....stop blaming them people sweet baby....it's you. YOU. YOUUUUU!!! Being mad and combative all the time is immature and ignorant. Get some emotional intelligence/maturity and grow tf up. Some of you adults throw temper tantrums worse than these kids....like I tell Zyan, YOUR ATTITUDE (OR TEMPER) … Continue reading Rant: Misery loves company, but I ain’t the one. #TristaDaniell

Moments of Mania w/ #TristaDaniell

People often think of #bipolardisorder in terms of severe mood swings at any given moment 🙄 (a false and unfair stereotype that does NOT cover all individuals living with the disorder, particularly those who are not in the midst of an episode and/or who have developed appropriate techniques to deal with triggers ) but.... Sometimes … Continue reading Moments of Mania w/ #TristaDaniell

Still….

You KICKED me while i was down... ...because you believed i would not [could not] recover. BUT! in the words of my great Grandcestor Maya Angelou, STILL!!!!!!!!! I RISE. -Trista.Daniell

You need to forgive…yourself.

Once during self reflection, I was tasked with the question, "Who are you really upset with?" ...after hesitation, I realized the root of the anger was towards myself. The reason is not important, but the outcome was like a healing balm to my soul. I was trapped in anger...that I was directing towards others out … Continue reading You need to forgive…yourself.

Foreplay…

Undress her slowly.... Savor the moment Tease with the tongue.... Touch her, softly Trail your fingers Caress her body ...let it linger.... Foreplay. -Trista Daniell ©tristadaniell

The Lies We Tell

I try to avoid lying whenever I can. I believe that whole "honesty is the best policy" thing embedded in our heads as children primarily because I got my 🤬 beat for telling "little" lies enough to develop an aversion to lying - or so I thought. Recently in self-reflection, I was mulling about being … Continue reading The Lies We Tell

Kindness should be…earned?

I've always been a gentle person when it comes to dealing with other people. I know what it's like to feel unwanted, tolerated, and shunned so I make it my duty to treat others as kind as I possibly can because I might be the only kindness they experience that day. These days, people celebrate … Continue reading Kindness should be…earned?