Supporting #BlackBusiness [Do Better! ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE AFRICAN AMERICAN].

If we (the Black community) understood the value of working together and supporting one another we'd be much further ahead. But nooooo, instead of joining together- we all gotta shine. Instead of investing our money to build a business that can compete everybody gotta have they own hustle. You and 99 of your friends selling … Continue reading Supporting #BlackBusiness [Do Better! ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE AFRICAN AMERICAN].

This Post is Gay: You know you wanna read it. 😏

I've seen waaaaay too much LGBT hate on my timeline and I am not for it. I stepped back from talking about LGBT issues, the Black community, and the church (specifically, predominantly Black churches), but maybe I need to start speaking again. Cause what y'all WON'T do is tell people like me we not welcome, … Continue reading This Post is Gay: You know you wanna read it. 😏

I Didn’t Survive #RKelly, but I survived so many like him….

I applaud John Legend for his willingness to speak out. I hope more men follow his lead. It angers me to hear how many men (and older women) around #rkelly had opportunities to (at minimum) report him to authorities and/or get these girls away, warn these parents, etc....and they didn't. A little of my story … Continue reading I Didn’t Survive #RKelly, but I survived so many like him….

To those (men and women) who are more appalled by how long it takes some women to speak out when raped than you are at men who ACTUALLY RAPE (or the fact that it happens so often and for so long).

He shouldn't have run. She shouldn't have gone. He shouldn't have worn a hoodie. She shouldn't dress like that. Look at his record, he was clearly a thug... Look at her past, she was clearly a whore.... He had drugs in his system... She was drunk and high... LOOK AT HIM! HE LOOKS LIKE A … Continue reading To those (men and women) who are more appalled by how long it takes some women to speak out when raped than you are at men who ACTUALLY RAPE (or the fact that it happens so often and for so long).

Check-in. What next? Dealing with Depression and the idea of Suicide.

Apparently.....95%of my timeline now suffers from depression. Meanwhile, about 1% of the 95 have sought help for said depression. Why? Everyone's sharing how everyone needs to check in on they friend and help....but damn, how sway? If everyone depressed, how we supposed to check on each other? Some of these posts that are supposed to … Continue reading Check-in. What next? Dealing with Depression and the idea of Suicide.

Rape. A Survivor’s Story.

Do you know what it is to be penetrated without permission? How it feels to have someone invade your space and take a taste of your most intimate place against your wishes? She does. Wishes, Wishes, Oh how she wishes... Wishes she hadn't worn that... Wishes she hadn't said that.... Wishes she hadn't smiled like … Continue reading Rape. A Survivor’s Story.

Discipline starts EARLY. #Parenting

People love to give children a pass on poor behaviors when they're little....then wanna be all super hard on them when they become teenagers and wonder why they having such a hard time getting a child to listen...IT STARTS YOUNG! Stop spoiling the hell out of these kids, babying them (especially the boys! Ugh!),and giving … Continue reading Discipline starts EARLY. #Parenting