Kindness should be…earned?

I've always been a gentle person when it comes to dealing with other people. I know what it's like to feel unwanted, tolerated, and shunned so I make it my duty to treat others as kind as I possibly can because I might be the only kindness they experience that day. These days, people celebrate … Continue reading Kindness should be…earned?

F*CK “FRIENDS”

Can I get honest with yall for a minute? I've been that socially awkward girl as long as I can remember. These days, being awkward is like a badge of honor, everyone wants to be different...showcase their quirk...but social anxiety is nothing to showcase. It's a frustratingly isolating experience that you desperately wish to conquer, … Continue reading F*CK “FRIENDS”

To those (men and women) who are more appalled by how long it takes some women to speak out when raped than you are at men who ACTUALLY RAPE (or the fact that it happens so often and for so long).

He shouldn't have run. She shouldn't have gone. He shouldn't have worn a hoodie. She shouldn't dress like that. Look at his record, he was clearly a thug... Look at her past, she was clearly a whore.... He had drugs in his system... She was drunk and high... LOOK AT HIM! HE LOOKS LIKE A … Continue reading To those (men and women) who are more appalled by how long it takes some women to speak out when raped than you are at men who ACTUALLY RAPE (or the fact that it happens so often and for so long).

Breaking point…(suicidal thoughts)

You can choose to let "it" break you or you can refuse to be broken. Easier said than done, I know, but the truth is what it is. Strength is a choice. Endurance is...a choice. Your survival? A choice. Most of us suffer more than we should because we choose pain over healing. Healing is … Continue reading Breaking point…(suicidal thoughts)

The Darkness….

People out here suffering y'all. I mean like real live life or death suffering ...and all we worried about is who popping the most.... TF WRONG WITH HUMANS. (Self included). I'm sorry, I'm in my feelings tonight. Too many people I know and love are battling this ugly demon that is depression - alone - … Continue reading The Darkness….

Collaboration Over Competition

Check-in. What next? Dealing with Depression and the idea of Suicide.

Apparently.....95%of my timeline now suffers from depression. Meanwhile, about 1% of the 95 have sought help for said depression. Why? Everyone's sharing how everyone needs to check in on they friend and help....but damn, how sway? If everyone depressed, how we supposed to check on each other? Some of these posts that are supposed to … Continue reading Check-in. What next? Dealing with Depression and the idea of Suicide.

Don’t JUST pray…SEEK HELP.

Dear ya'll......if #God created all, wouldn't that include therapists? Don't get me wrong, I'm a praying woman but I also know God provided us with resources on earth to help us overcome and cope. For a long time I suffered mentally because I didn't know how to cope and praying didn't do anything to ease … Continue reading Don’t JUST pray…SEEK HELP.

Rape. A Survivor’s Story.

Do you know what it is to be penetrated without permission? How it feels to have someone invade your space and take a taste of your most intimate place against your wishes? She does. Wishes, Wishes, Oh how she wishes... Wishes she hadn't worn that... Wishes she hadn't said that.... Wishes she hadn't smiled like … Continue reading Rape. A Survivor’s Story.

Discipline starts EARLY. #Parenting

People love to give children a pass on poor behaviors when they're little....then wanna be all super hard on them when they become teenagers and wonder why they having such a hard time getting a child to listen...IT STARTS YOUNG! Stop spoiling the hell out of these kids, babying them (especially the boys! Ugh!),and giving … Continue reading Discipline starts EARLY. #Parenting