Whores & Wives by Trista Daniell

“You’re sleeping with my husband!” It was 9:42 AM on a Wednesday, and my best friend was screaming this most horrible accusation outside of my home. “I can’t believe you! You… dis…loyal… bitch!” She shouted while banging her fists against the heavy oak door. She hit with such force that I swore I felt the … Continue reading Whores & Wives by Trista Daniell

You say you want “peace” but…do you?

....everyone wants this thing called "peace" in their lives. Peace is readily available to all who desire this; but to dwell in peace, the individual must begin to do the work to develop peace within. Your internal dictates your external. Peace must be cultivated in your life. You have to choose peace. Each day, each … Continue reading You say you want “peace” but…do you?

Father’s Day…for the men who blessed me.

A constant father figure, I did not have. But I would like to acknowledge my first father figure (from adoption to age 5)- Preston James, he is the one who told my momma they should take me. He doted on me, I do remember that, took me everywhere (so much so that he took me … Continue reading Father’s Day…for the men who blessed me.

Obsessed

Do you understand how much I love you? Do you recognize the lengths I go to showcase this love? How I dress it up on a jewel encrusted platter... My heart, the main course Loyalty and peace, your sides. Do you understand how much I love you? Can you recognize the truth in my heart? … Continue reading Obsessed

Check-in. What next? Dealing with Depression and the idea of Suicide.

Apparently.....95%of my timeline now suffers from depression. Meanwhile, about 1% of the 95 have sought help for said depression. Why? Everyone's sharing how everyone needs to check in on they friend and help....but damn, how sway? If everyone depressed, how we supposed to check on each other? Some of these posts that are supposed to … Continue reading Check-in. What next? Dealing with Depression and the idea of Suicide.

Are we loving or are we lying?

How simple it would be If love were free But alas, It costs So much. We are desperate for love, because we do not know Love. We have an idea of what we think it is, but that idea rarely permeates our realities. To us, love is equated with "feelings" - if she/he makes me … Continue reading Are we loving or are we lying?

Don’t JUST pray…SEEK HELP.

Dear ya'll......if #God created all, wouldn't that include therapists? Don't get me wrong, I'm a praying woman but I also know God provided us with resources on earth to help us overcome and cope. For a long time I suffered mentally because I didn't know how to cope and praying didn't do anything to ease … Continue reading Don’t JUST pray…SEEK HELP.

Rape. A Survivor’s Story.

Do you know what it is to be penetrated without permission? How it feels to have someone invade your space and take a taste of your most intimate place against your wishes? She does. Wishes, Wishes, Oh how she wishes... Wishes she hadn't worn that... Wishes she hadn't said that.... Wishes she hadn't smiled like … Continue reading Rape. A Survivor’s Story.

You say you know God’s Love – do you?

So I've asked for prayer to know the love of God without doubt so I can develop faith that moves mountains...well God is answering that prayer through John Eldridge's book, Moving Mountains. Today's chapter asked me what I believed about God...God's provision...God's care for you. Do you believe God is all powerful and near? Or … Continue reading You say you know God’s Love – do you?

Fix your eyes for effective prayer!

Note: you cannot be effective in prayer if your focus is on your problem/suffering. Like Christ, you MUST fix your gaze/thoughts upon I AM! Example: a person with debt prays for help with the debt but the mind and emotions are focused on the debt, instead of Gods unlimited provision, faithfulness, power....it is the same … Continue reading Fix your eyes for effective prayer!

Fuckboys!

Fuckboys. Fuckboys! Fuckboys! What do I see? All these fuckboys staring at me. Sliding in my inbox Bullshit on ten Here he go with these dumb ass lines again. Yea....I'm doing fine. No...I don't need new friends. No thanks, I'm married. Naw, we don't "sometimes do men"! Fuckboys! Fuckboys! All around Thirsty as fuck But … Continue reading Fuckboys!